After my last feature article about going braless, my boyfriend was still in disbelief that "cute" undergarments could be uncomfortable. After all, they're made to touch your most intimate regions, what could be so uncomfortable about three inches of padding squishing your chest into your rib cage and a literal string between your legs? So we made a deal.
This one is for the ladies, especially those ones who have found themselves with a man who wears lingerie, but who didn't really plan things going that way. As I have said in other articles, the first time I found out about a man I was with wearing lingerie I hadn't even thought about it before, it was well and truly completely off my radar. Over time I came to quite enjoy it though, and I think that if a woman is prepared to accept the man she's with for who he is, and not try to make him into her fantasy male stereotype, then there is a good chance that she can actually enjoy her boyfriend or husband wearing lingerie too.
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What if I am unattracted to him afterward? What should I do? A: First of all, you should know that there is a difference between a man who occasionally enjoys dressing in lingerie because he finds it fun and erotic, and a man who does so because he feels he should have been born female or because he fetishizes these objects. Your task, as you decide whether or not to stay in this relationship, is to determine which kind of man he is and whether or not either is acceptable to you.
The date had gone wonderfully—a night of perfect romance after months apart. So when Hanna stripped down in front of her long-distance boyfriend once they got home, revealing red lace panties with a matching bra and garter, she expected a reaction worthy of her fancy lingerie. Hanna, 21, still loves buying and wearing lingerie, just not in front of her boyfriend.
Beth was my boss. And a good one at that. She had a real presence about her.
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It's a well-known fact that many men have been wearing women's lingerie for years. Credit: hommemystere. But one thing is for sure, it's probably been pretty tight down there. Until now that is because a lingerie company has created an array of underwear sets and nightwear especially for men - and, more importantly, their junk.
Psychologist Robyn Salisbury helps a reader with a relationship dilemma. I don't want to be a woman, I just find it a great turn-on to wear women's silky underwear and stockings with a suspender belt. I thought we could incorporate this into our sex life to give it a boost as it's become somewhat humdrum.
Have you ever had your partner ask you to wear lingerie and all the alarm bells in your head instantly start going off like fireworks on the 4th of July? I realized that the reasons why my husband wanted to see me in lingerie were on a completely different planet than the reasons why I was self-conscious about doing it. All of me. My husband sees those women.