Count-the-tiles-on-the-ceiling sex. Sex that made you feel like less than a person. Does this sound familiar?
Some relationships can have almost everything going for them — mutual attraction, good communication, well-matched personalities — but somehow still manage to be duds in the bedroom. How well partners are matched sexually relies on a various factors and those can change constantly for no real reason. Some mismatches are easier to address than others but, for couples who are having issues clicking carnally, the professional consensus is that there is almost always hope.
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How did that happen? Why does this happen? But the latter issue of sexual compatibility is a much trickier conundrum: is the bad sex a one-off that can be fixed with time, effort or just a do-over? Does he have a semi-soft dick?
If you like or love your partner, but the sex is falling short, we really feel for you. So, how do you distinguish between sex that is fixable and sex that might be a sign of incompatibility? Before you consider walking away from your relationship, read on.
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Ah, one of the greatest tragedies of all time: You find Mr. Like most self-respecting Americans, I let the media be my guide for everything. Before I went to middle school, I knew I'd be dealing with puberty, my first crush and cliquey girls.
He expects you to blow him, but won't return the favor. Giving another person pleasure can itself be pleasurable, sure. He comes every time, you come none to almost none of the time.
Whether you're involved in a summer fling, a FWB arrangement, or something a bit more long-term and stable, you've probably figured out that good relationships are made even better by good sex. On the flip side, even the best relationships can be completely derailed when one or both partners are bad in bed. But how do you know when bad sex is a relationship dealbreaker?